How should the church handle unavoidable conflict? Matthew 18 gives a clear process — humility, truth, and love — that leads to restoration instead of resentment. In this sermon we walk Matthew 18 step-by-step and unpack Hebrews 12:5–6,11: why discipline is God’s loving way to shape His people, not a tool for punishment. Learn how real church discipline moves toward reconciliation, protects the flock, and produces righteousness and peace. What you'll hear: Conflict is inevitable — churches are full of imperfect people. Follow God’s process: go one-on-one, then bring one or two, then the church if needed. Discipline as love: the goal is restoration, not revenge. The endgame: unity and spiritual growth when we speak truth in love. Practical next steps: Pray for humility before a hard conversation. Use the Matthew 18 steps as your roadmap. Aim for restoration — ask, “How can this person be restored?” not “How can I win?” Scripture: Matthew 18 • Hebrews 12:5–6, 12:11